- You have MORE THAN ONE COACH for the same problem: coaching is one of the most transformational skills on earth. Coaching is how people tap into themselves to become masters of their lives and goals. But having more than 1 coach for the same goal(s) is counterproductive. You cannot have 2 finance coaches, 2 health coaches, 2 relationship coaches, 2 business coaches. That is cross-functional. Your problem will be more complex than be solved.
- You EVADE TASKS: when you identify that there is a problem to solve.. for example, making more money in your business, or building a more healthy routine, or eating healthy diets, or improving your parenting methods, etc. these come with a lot of routine tasks and responsibilities. If you always find an excuse to not do them, you’re playing to the gallery. You won’t solve the problem.
- Every other person is WHY you have the problem: I have met many people like this. They barely ever take responsibility for the role they play in their failures or problems. Someone recently has been going on and on writing on Facebook blaming her husband, her coaches, her friends, her family, everyone EXCEPT HERSELF, why she is down. This can’t work.
- You always say “I DON’T HAVE MONEY.” : this is almost a song for some people. They never have money to pay for the help they are looking for. They feel entitled to help; some feel helpless to use help. Some would rather spend on fantasies than pay for help. Some believe they can ‘pray’ help rather than pay to work out their help. This does not work too.
- You enjoy PITY. Yes!!! Pity party is a strong addiction. That sense of being shielded by empathy and love to the extent that you don’t want to make any progressive move. Pity is a vice. It weakens the beneficiary who stays stuck to it. Tough love with mild pity is magic. Otherwise, no growth will happen.
If you believe you want to break any of these signs, Cerca Africa can help you. We can support you by:
- Brainstorming with you: you can enjoy a 15-minute FREE STRATEGY CALL from any Member of our Professional Faculty. Just send an email with “Strategy Call” in the subject area. Send it to SERVICES@CERCAAFRICA.COM. Ensure to put your phone number in the mail and someone will call you.
- Training: we can train you and your team to solve personal and group problems. This offer is only available for teams from 20 and above. Use the email address above. Subject should be: “Training”.
- 1-1 Coaching: this is an exclusive offer for Founders, Board Members and C-Suite Executives (CEO, COO, CIO, CFO, CMO, etc.). It can also be for Adults needing personal help. In your email, use “Coaching” as Subject.
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